Dating in your 30s hits violently different. Like… do we wear a mini skirt? A bodycon dress? Jeans and a nice top? Are we trying to look hot, relaxed, emotionally stable, or like we have boundaries ...

At the beginning of summer, I found myself going on such a spontaneous first date that I did not have time to go home and change beforehand. (Ah, the joy of modern dating apps.) For many, this could ...