The three secrets of resilient people

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Since losing my brother, I’ve returned to Anne Lamott’s words like a compass. They help me find my way when I’m lost in grief. “You will lose someone you can’t live without, and your heart will be badly broken. And the bad news is that you never completely get over the loss of your beloved. But this is also the good news. They live forever in your broken heart that doesn’t seal back up. And you come through. It’s like having a broken leg that never heals perfectly—that still hurts when the weath